OBITUARY
AND HISTORY
RUTH AMELIA
HOFF (NEE HOFFMAN)
Born:
April 11, 1917 – Williston, North Dakota
Died:
January 13, 2005 – Richmond, British Columbia
Ruth was predeceased
by her husband Ernest Hoff, and daughter Lorna Lackey. Ruth is survived
by her son, Larry (Martha) Hoff, Tsawwassen, B.C.; daughter, Bonny (Larry)
Sawyer, Naniamo, B.C.; grandchildren, Lara Mansfield, Jeremy Hoff, Jason
Hoff, Nathan Hoff, Kelly Tobiason, Michele Behie, Kevin Lackey, Craig
Lackey; great-grandchildren, Taylor Tobiason, Reid Tobiason, Victoria
Behie, Alexandra Behie, Patrick Behie, and Joel Lackey. She is also
survived by her sisters, Jennie Finney, and, Annie Strom; and, brothers,
Eldon Hoffman and Harold Hoffman. |
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Ruth
Amelia Hoff (nee Hoffman) was the 7th of 11 children born to William
Cyrus and Emily Blanche (nee Snook) Hoffman in Williston, North Dakota,
early in the morning of April 11, 1917. She was quite tiny and had a
lot of black hair. The family moved to Havre, Montana, a few months
later and then to Muir, Pennsylvania, in 1918. In the spring of 1919
they moved to a homestead (320 acres) near Gladmar, Saskatchewan, where
they lived in a sod house on a hill until they built a house across
the road from a small lake. They moved to Radville, Saskatchewan, in
August, 1935. Ruth’s father farmed for a while before being appointed
secretary-treasurer of Rural Municipality No. 38.
Ruth quit school
after competing grade 10. Two years later she returned to school, completed
grades 11 and 12 at the top of her class for which she was awarded $50.
With her money she bought a horse and named him Flash. Flash was slightly
crippled in one leg but was a very fast runner. On one occasion, Ruth
was riding him quite fast when he decided to stop at the fence he usually
jumped with ease. Ruth went flying off and went over the fence by herself.
Her body was not injured, but her pride surely was. Later, when Ruth
and Ernie were dating, Ernie rode Flash in local races and never lost.
The Hoff and Hoffman
families have a long history of connection with the Church of Christ
in Canada. In the early 20’s, Ruth’s mother-in-law, Margaret Hoff (nee
Ekren), married to Martin Hoff, attended a series of gospel meetings
with H. A. Rogers preaching and Wilfred Orr leading singing. She was
baptized and quickly converted my grandfather, Martin Hoff. When Margaret
got sick and died in 1927, Lillian Torkelson came to the Hoff house
several times to help cook and look after the Hoff kids while Martin
was away working. When J. C. Bailey moved to Radville, his first time,
he contacted Martin to start the Radville congregation. Ruth’s husband
Ernest Hoff was baptized by D. H. Perkins in 1933 following one of the
Summer Bible Schools. Ernest began dating Ruth Hoffman, introduced her
to the church of Christ, and she was baptized by J. C. Bailey during
a Radville Summer Bible School in 1937. They moved to Vancouver, B.
C., in 1942 and attended the 12th & Carolina congregation. Throughout
the years, J. C. Bailey visited the Hoff home several times. In the
summer of 1953, Lillian Torkelson visited and convinced Ruth and Ernie
to send their son Larry to Radville Christian College. A month later
Trudy Orr, with Jack and Grace Cleveland, took Pamela Pady (Bond), Willodene
Wedler (Courage), and Larry, with camping equipment and all their clothing,
in a small Ford Counsel car, to Radville Christian College. Larry attended
from 1953-54 and from 1955-58. His sister, Lorna and cousin Jim attended
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Ruth
first met Ernie Mertin Hoff in 1936 at the old swimming hole in Long
Creek at the NE side of Radville. I’m told their eyes met and lives
connected and bonded but, as both were very shy, it took some scheming
by Ernie’s sister, Lillian, to arrange that first date – a movie in
town. Ernie and Ruth totally enjoyed each other’s company and spent
most of their time together just walking around.
Ruth and Ernie were married
on October 29th, 1937 in Radville, at the Hoffman home. David Bradley
was the officiating minister. Ruth wore a brown satin dress and Ernie
wore a charcoal gray, pinstripe suit, complete with matching vest, a
dark gray tie and a white shirt. Eldon Hoffman and Annie Hoffman were
their attendants. Those present included Martin Hoff, William and Blanche
Hoffman, Lawrence Hoff, and Harold Hoffman. |
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The
couple first lived in a rented, two-story farmhouse about a mile west
of Radville. This place was described as a nice, clean house with a
well-kept yard. About a year later they moved to rent a small, modest,
two-bedroom house (known as the Austin house) not far from the river
and just below the Hoff family house. Larry was born on December 22,
1938 and Bonny on September 7th, 1940. Both were born in a home where
the local mid-wife lived because there was no hospital. Ernie and Ruth
had very little earthly goods but were very happy with life. Work was
hard to find but Ernie worked on farms, on section gangs, and on odd
jobs around town. Ruth worked miracles with her cooking and sewing.
They always opened their home to anyone needing a place to stay. Lawrence
and Helen Hoff (nee Hoffman) stayed there for a while after their marriage.
Norman and Helen Hoffman (nee Hoff) stayed for a while on another occasion.
Towards their last
days in Radville, they moved into the Hoff family home where Ernie helped
his dad and Ruth did the cooking. Ruth was always known for her delicious
meals. Roast beef, mashed potatoes, peas and “melt in your mouth” fresh
apple pie was one of her favorites.
In October, 1942,
Ernie and Ruth and their children, Larry and Bonny, packed all their
worldly possessions into Ruth’s father’s (William Hoffman) car and off
they drove to British Columbia (American route to Seattle and then north)
to find work and a better life for the family. They stayed with Ruth’s
parents, William and Blanche Hoffman, in Milner (Langley Prairie) for
a few months and then moved to rent (later bought) a small, two-bedroom
house in Vancouver. Lorna Mae was born on October 3rd, 1947, at Grace
Hospital. Lorna was a most beautiful and likeable person who died from
cancer on September 13, 1997. Ernie worked at the Burrard Shipyards,
Buckerfields, Vancouver General Hospital, and Denco Dental Supplies.
Ruth worked for many years at the Vancouver General Hospital.Ruth and
Ernie moved to Tsawwassen, a suburb of Vancouver, in July, 1970. They
were part of the founding members of the Delta church of Christ in 1982
and the first meeting was in their home. Ernie passed away on December
27th, 1983 at age 68 after several years of cancer.
Ernie and Ruth were
always a very close couple, going everywhere and doing everything together.
They enjoyed life, their family, going to church, having people over,
gardening, traveling, walking, visiting, fixing things, and just sitting
or walking together.
Ruth was a quiet,
unassuming, hospitable, and warm person. During her lifetime, she was
a faithful member of the Radville, 12th & Carolina, Oakridge, West
End, and Delta Churches of Christ. She taught Sunday morning, children’s
Bible classes, especially enjoyed hosting weekly Bible Studies in her
home. Ruth always put her hope and trust in the Lord, in Whose mansion
she has gone to stay eternally.
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